Wednesday, 28 November 2012

Surrender



Have you been to the bottom of a very deep valley?


Well I have been there and I don’t like the feel of it.


Lately, I have been at the bottom of the pit. It’s not the best place to be but I guess that is when true character is tested. Since early last month I have been going through a roller coaster and have had no grip over what has been happening around me at all. At some point I felt like someone else was pushing me all the directions I did not want to go into. I felt I was out of control and nothing was working right, at least to my expectation. This was very frustrating. I had no control over my finance, my friendships or my job. I was being tossed from one end to another by day to day situations.


It is during this time that I learnt to be still. By this I don’t mean standing or sitting in one position without making any movement.  I mean letting the worry of all the cares of life not move you in all sorts of way. It was not an easy thing to do. It needed me to surrender everything to God. This meant letting go of even the things I think I can fix and just letting go…..


I can tell you, it is not an easy thing to do. This I say because there were situations where I felt that I could a much better job than God was doing and even much faster but I needed to surrender and let go… and majorly let God. In his perfect time He makes all things Perfect. Well I learnt that the hard way. I needed to learn how to be patient with myself, others and God.


Some of the most encouraging words were from the song, “it is well”. Since I was not doing much, I had time to really picture what the author of the song was really going through. After having lost his business, his family and all that he held dear, he still said it is well with his soul. I guess he understood some things most of us don’t understand.


He knew that everything he had is from God.

He understood that God’s grace would be sufficient for his every situation.

He counted his blessings of having a Savior die for him.


Well I got encouraged by him. I cannot promise to have arrived but for this one reason that an innocent man gave His life for me, I will do my best to get to that place where I can say, IT IS WELL WITH MY SOUL. It may take a day, month or even years but I am not giving up. I will do my best to be still and know that God is in control of everything.


He shines the moon at night for and the sun by day. The sun and Moon don’t get confused as when to shine or not! Therefore, my situations are not a mess anymore. I will choose to learn what I can from every situation and move on. Baggage that only slows me down is to be left behind….
 

Tuesday, 9 October 2012

LOVE IS....






she wrote...

My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, 'n I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. Three years of courtship 'n now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it.

The reasons of me loving him before, has now
transformed into the cause of all my restlessness. I am a sentimental woman 'n extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship 'n my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, 'n the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love. One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times.

My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? 'n finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?” Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, 'n I guess, I have started losing faith in him.

Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can answer 'n convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, 'n we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said :” I will give you your answer tomorrow ...” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, 'n saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes….

My dear, “I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..” This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading. “When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, 'n you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your “good friend” approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy. You like to stay indoors, 'n I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes 'n stories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, 'n that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails,'n help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine 'n the beautiful sand… 'n tell you the color of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face…

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do… I could not pick that flower yet, 'n die.. ” My tears fell on the letter, 'n blurred the ink of his handwriting… 'n as I continue on reading…

“Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread 'n fresh milk …

I rush to pull open the door, 'n saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle 'n loaf of bread ... Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, 'n I have decided to leave the flower alone…

That’s life, 'n love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, 'n one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace 'n dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, even very small 'n cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull 'n boring form... flowers, 'n romantic moments are only used 'n appear on the surface of the relationship.


Borrowed from a friend...

Thursday, 13 September 2012

Guard your Heart and Mind




If you can get this, this will change your life… I was out taking my morning run. I love how still it is when I’m running. I can hear clearly and really commune with God. I wanted to share this with you. It’s a lesson I had to learn.

 One of the keys to success is to be able to guard your heart. Now, usually when someone says guard your heart they are talking about keeping yourself from heartbreak. Although that is important (as long as you don’t go overboard... but that’s another conversation) that isn’t what I’m talking about. When we are born into this world we enter with such a pure heart but as we grow older situations, circumstances and people tend to make us change. Now I know it is nearly impossible to keep a childlike innocence in our hearts all of our lives, especially after people have betrayed, lied, mistreated and downright been the devil. Trust me when I tell you, I have seen it all. I have been there big time. If you’re like me you’ve been there too. But if this is your situation I want you to know two very important things about those moments of heartbreak. Number one, learn the lesson in it. See how it will work together for your good, because it will. Once you do, it’s easier to forgive and move on. Secondly, and this is just as important as the first one, you must not let that person or people change your heart. What do I mean by that? Well, if you are a giver and someone you have given to misuses your gift, don’t stop giving… just give to someone else. If you are a person that loves people and someone you love hates you, don’t stop loving… love someone else. Eventually, you will find people who appreciate your kindness and your love. Remember this, lots of people have been conditioned to not be able to accept purity of heart. They can’t take it in. Most times it’s not even their fault. It’s just what has happened to them on their journey in life. But don’t let them turn you into one of them. There will be a lot of people in your life who will not appreciate your pureness of heart. If they hurt you don’t stop being you… just be you with someone else.

 Why is this so important? Because God blesses you according to what is in your heart. If you are being kind, giving, loving and sharing because it is in your heart and you are not looking for anything in return, then that is a heart that God wants to bless. If you change who you are because you’ve been hurt, then you’ve changed the thing that God wants to bless you according to, and that is your heart. The people who hurt you are not worth that. You can lose everything that you have, but don’t let anybody change your heart.

By Tyler Perry

Monday, 3 September 2012

David Rudisha


David Rudisha a worldwide name by now. He is the world record holder for the 800m race. What a name to have. Most athletes would like to know what it takes to go for gold with such determination as he did.  Others would like to be associated with him even more that know what makes him move. Well it is the same thing with us.  Most times we are so caught up and focused in what other people are doing and how they are running their race that we forget to run our own race.


Are you running your race? Everyone has a unique race to run. David Rudisha may not have done as well if he had chosen a different race. The beauty of life is that each of our races complements the other person’s race. By this I mean that everyone exists for a reason and a purpose. It is important that we get to know what race we should run, what dream we should follow, what purpose we should pursue. When we focus on our own then others can focus on theirs. But of even more importance is it to know the creator of the race, the dream giver and the purpose setter. God. Like Rudisha if we run a good race, finish well and win the price, only to realize that we had run the wrong race, we would not be proud of our achievements at all. So why run the wrong race?

Mostly we run the wrong race for lack of knowledge or thinking that the race we are to run is too hard for us and resort to an easier one. The down side of running the wrong race is that we are not equipped enough to run it. We make mistakes that cannot be taken back and most times give up along the way. If only we had stayed on our course. The word of God (Bible) encourages us that there is hope even after we have left what it is we are meant to be doing. In Hosea 6: 1 to 3, the bible says that though we are torn and stricken He, the Lord, will heal and bind us. It may not be literal tearing but when the burdens and the responsibilities of life are too heavy for us; they leave us torn most times. It this kind, that the Lord heals us from. The same scripture says that we will be risen up. Meaning, those areas of our lives that are dead can be revived to be productive yet again.

So we can get back to running our own race in life and we have been assured that we will have help, we will be revived as we persevere and if we stay focused enough the reward that comes thereafter will be greater than we ever imagined. Having these promises in our back pocket does not mean that the ride will be smooth but it is in the rough patches of the road that we realize that we are weak but HAVE A STRONG GOD, that we need to act but based on FAITH. (Faith without actions is dead, but those actions need to be directed by God).

Food for thought.

  1.   Are you doing what God ordained for you to do?
  2.  How are you using your God given talents and gifts?
  3. Does your work give you satisfaction deep within or you are doing it for the money?
  4. Whom do you represent in what you do? Yourself or God?


Wednesday, 29 August 2012

A PRAYER EVERY WIFE SHOULD PRAY



Lord
, help me to be a good wife. I fully realize that I do not what it takes to be one without Your help. Take my selfishness, impatience irritability and turn them into kindness, long-suffering and the willingness to bear all things. Take my old emotional habits, mindsets, automatic reactions, rude assumptions and self-protective stance and make me patient, kind good faithful, gentle and self-controlled. Take the hardness of my heart and break down the wall with the battering ram of revelation. Give me a new heart and work in me Your love, Your peace and joy (Galatians 5:22, 23)
Show me where there is sin in my heart especially in regard to my husband. I confess the times I have been unloving, critical, angry, resentful, disrespectful, or unforgiving towards him. Help me to put aside any hurt anger or disappointment I feel and forgive him the way You do-totally and completely, no looking back. Make me a tool of reconciliation, peace and healing in this marriage. Enable us to communicate well and rescue us from the threshold of separation where the realities of divorce begin.
Make me my husband’s helpmate, friend, champion, support, companion. Help me create a peaceful, restful, safe place to come home to. Teach me how to take care of myself and stay attractive to him. Grow me into a creative and confident woman who is rich in mind, soul and spirit. Make me the kind of woman he can be proud to say is his wife.
I lay all my expectations at Your cross. I release my husband from the burden of fulfilling me in areas where I should be looking to You. Help me to accept him the way he is and not try to change him. I realize that in some ways he may never change, but at the same time, I release him to change in ways I never thought he could. I leave any changing that needs to be done in Your hands, fully accepting that neither of us is perfect and never will be. Only You Lord are perfect and I look to You to perfect us.
Teach me how to pray for my husband and make my prayers a true language of love. Where love has died, create new love between us. Show me what unconditional love really is and how to communicate it in a way he can clearly perceive.  Bring unity between us so that we can be in agreement about everything. (Amos 3:3) May the God of patience and comfort grant us to be like-minded toward one another, according to Christ Jesus. (Romans 15:5). Make us a team not pursuing separate, competitive or independent lives, but working together, overlooking each other’s faults and weaknesses for the greater good of the marriage. Help us to pursue the things which make for peace and things by which one may edify another. (Romans 14:19)May we be “perfectly joined together in the same mind and I the same judgment” (1Corinthians 1:10)
I pray that our commitment to You and to one another will grow stronger and more passionate every day. Enable him to be the head of the home as You made him to be and show me how to support and respect him as he rises to that place of leadership. Help me understand his dreams and see things from his perspective. Reveal to me what he wants and needs and show me potential problems before they arise. Breathe your life into this marriage.
Make me a new person, Lord. Give me a fresh perspective, a positive outlook and a renewed relationship with the man You’ve given me. Help me see him in new eyes, new appreciation, new love, new compassion and new acceptance. Give my husband a new wife and let it be me.

From Stormie Omartian's "The power of a PRAYING WIFE"

Monday, 27 August 2012

Understanding People


The Leadership Principle of

Understanding People

"For the Lord grants wisdom! His every word is a treasure of knowledge and understanding." 
Proverbs 2:6
Why should I want to understand people? That's a good question. There are many reasons, but let us look at a few of the important ones:
1. It will save us from a lot of conflicts.
2. We will be able to lead and motivate people.
3. It will give us a forgiving heart.

The wise man, Solomon, talked much about certain types of people - the fools, mockers, rebels, the lazy, and others. He was wise because he understood them and knew how to deal with them. He experienced great fame and success by understanding them, and they called it "wisdom." If we don't understand mockers and rebels, we will have a lot of unnecessary conflicts with them and then develop a bad attitude toward them - which will in turn hurt us more than it will them. As people in business, we need to understand our employees in order to motivate them, or we will have poor production which will put us out of business. We also need to understand our customers - what they want, and why they want it. Without understanding them and their needs, we may be serving them well but not satisfying them. Sometimes all they want is to be appreciated or recognized. Every one of us has at least four basic needs:

1. To be loved and appreciated.
2. To experience a sense of achievement or self-worth.
3. To have a sense of belonging.
4. To feel secure.

We should keep these in mind whenever we deal with people, regardless of the situation. Business management consists of motivating people to service others. It is pretty hard to manage and motivate our people if we don't understand their personal needs. We need to understand their strengths and their weaknesses, and place them accordingly. A good team is made of a variety of people with a variety of gifts. The weakness in one should be covered by the strength of another. Out of the Lord's mouth comes knowledge and understanding, and if we sincerely seek Him to gain wisdom, He will give it. God says, "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom". When we understand why people do what they do and why they are what they are, we will know how to direct them to get the proper response.

A good understanding will also give us a forgiving attitude. Jesus understood His accusers. That's why He could say, "Father forgive them, for they know not what they do." What an attitude! Forgiveness came easily because He understood their ignorance or why they did what they did. We too can forgive easily if we understand ourselves and our situation. Generally, people want to be nice and good, but situations and pressures of life push them past their hope or dreams. Many times, they feel bad immediately after they have reacted. This gives us an opportunity to speak a word of wisdom to them. The time to build people is when they are down; they won't listen to us when they are up. We need to commit ourselves to the task of understanding people. God will bless and reward us with a forgiving heart, and will give us peace and happiness in a world that is full of frustration and conflict.

This principle is a part of the one-year character development program
Foundations for Achievement
By John E. Schrock and La Red Business Network

Wednesday, 1 August 2012

Spiritual significance of the Number THREE


Came across this interesting piece and thought I would share. REMEMBER. TEST EVERY SPIRIT. Look into these things and find the truth in them for yourself. A bit long but worth the read.

Three is the number associated with the Godhead, for there are "three persons in one God." Three times the Seraphim cry, "Holy, Holy, Holy"--one for each of the three persons in the Trinity (Isa 6:3). The living creatures also in Revelation 4:8.
Three times is the blessing given in Numbers 6:23, 24:--
  • "The LORD bless thee and keep thee (the Father);
  • The LORD make His face shine upon thee; and be gracious unto thee (the Son);
  • The LORD lift up His countenance upon thee, and give thee peace" (the Holy Spirit).

Each of these three blessings is two-fold, so that there are two members in each, while the name Jehovah occurs three times. This marks the blessing as Divine in its source. No merit drew it forth; grace was its origin and peace was its result.
In Genesis 18:2, the same three persons appear to Abraham. Abraham "looked, and, lo, THREE men stood by him." But verse 1 declares that it was "Jehovah appeared unto him." It is remarkable that Abraham addresses them both as one and as three. We read first that "they said," then "he said," and finally, in verses 13 and 17, 20, etc., "And the LORD said." The whole narrative, which begins with the appearance of the LORD, ends (v 33), "And the LORD went His way."
As we have in the number one the sovereignty of the one God; and in two the second person, the Son, the great Deliverer; so in "three" we have the third person, the Holy Spirit, marking and completing "the fulness of the Godhead." This word "fulness" is remarkable, occurring only three times, and in connection with the Three Persons of the Trinity:
  • Ephesians 3:19, "The fulness of God.
  • Ephesians 4:13, "The fulness of Christ."
  • Colossians 2:9, "The fulness of the Godhead."
The "fulness" was manifested visibly in Christ, and is communicated by the Holy Spirit, for it is a fulness of which we receive by His mighty power (John 1:16).
This is why Abraham brought "three measures of meal" for his heavenly guest. This is why "three measures of meal" formed the great meal offering; because it set forth the perfection of Christ's perfect and Divine nature. In Leviticus no particular quantity of meal was prescribed, but in Numbers 15:9, we read, "Then shall he bring with the bullock a meal offering of THREE tenth deals of flour." This was the measure for the whole burnt offering, and also for great special occasions such as the New Moon and the New Year, etc. It was also the special measure for the cleansing of the leper (Lev 14:10). The poor leper had several gracious blessings beyond others. He alone was favoured with the anointing which was given only to the Prophet, Priest, and King! He alone had the priestly consecration. It is sinners who are now singled out from the mass of those who are lost, and dead in trespasses and sins, to be anointed with the Spirit, and made, in Christ, kings and priests unto God.
But there is more in these "three measures of meal." We have them in the parable (Matt 13:33), pointing to Christ in all the perfection of His person and His work, when He said, "Lo, I come to do Thy will, O God." There are different opinions about the "leaven," but what is the "meal." This is the point on which the interpretation turns. According to the popular interpretation, this pure "meal" is the corrupt mass of mankind, and the defiling "leaven" is the pure Gospel of Christ! Was there ever such an exhibition of man's perversity in calling sweet bitter, and bitter sweet? Was there ever such a proof that man's thoughts are contrary to God's? No! the "three measures of meal" point us to the perfections of Christ and the purity of His Gospel. And the hidden "leaven" points us to man's corruption of the Truth. A corruption for which we have to look, not after the third century, but in the first!
No leaven could be put into any sacrifice or offering made by fire to the LORD, because in Christ was no sin; therefore, there was to be no leaven. He was, in Himself, "a sweet savour to Jehovah."
True, in one offering there was leaven. But mark the difference and the lesson. In Leviticus 23 we have a list of the Feasts:--
  • 1st. The Passover (v 5), on the 14th day.
  • 2nd. The wave-sheaf of first-fruits on the morrow after the Sabbath (v 11), which might be burnt on the altar as a sweet savour (Lev 2:14-16), because unleavened.
  • 3rd. Then (50 days after) the oblation of the first-fruits at Pentecost (vv 15-17). This might not be burnt on the altar (Lev 2:12), because it was mixed with leaven!
In the antitype of this we see Christ:--
  • 1st. Christ our Passover sacrificed for us.
  • 2nd. As the wave-sheaf of first-fruits, He was raised from the dead and became the first-fruits of them that slept (1 Cor 15:20), for in Him there was no sin (and hence no leaven).
  • 3rd. Then, after fifty days, on the Feast of Pentecost came the oblation of the first-fruits in the descent of the Holy Ghost; for "we are a kind of first-fruits of His creatures" (James 1:18). But His people are not without sin, therefore this oblation had leaven mixed with it. It could not be offered to the LORD as a "sweet savour" (Lev 2:12). It was accepted only because asin-offering was offered with it (Lev 23:18,19), and the Priest waved all together for a wave-offering before the LORD.
This proves that the "leaven" is a type of error, evil, and sin. While the "three measures of meal" with which it was mixed and hidden typified the truth and purity of Christ and His Truth, and not the corrupt mass of mankind amongst whom it was introduced. The popular interpretation reverses the types of the meal and the leaven, and makes the leaven that which is good, and the meal that which is evil. But the great Teacher made no such mistake. "Church doctrine" is not "Bible truth," but it is leavened meal.
The number three, therefore, must be taken as the number of Divine fulness. It signifies and represents the Holy Spirit as taking of the things of Christ and making them real and solid in our experience. It is only by the Spirit that we realise spiritual things. Without Him and His gracious operation, all is surface work: all is what a plane figure is to a solid (John 3:6). He it is who has wrought all our works in us, and by whom alone we can serve or worship (John 4:24).
Hence it is that the Holy of Holies, which was the central and highest place of worship, was a cube.
Hence it is that the third Book in the Bible is Leviticus, the book in which we learn what true worship is. Here we see Jehovah calling His people near unto Himself, prescribing every detail of their worship, leaving nothing to their imagination or their taste, crowning all with the "MUST" of the great rubric of John 4:24. In true worship we see the FATHER seeking these true worshippers (John 4:23); the SON, the one object of all worship; and the Spirit qualifying and enduring the worshippers with the only power in which they can worship. Thus in Genesis we havesovereignty in giving life--the Father, the beginning of all things; in Exodus we have the oppressor and the Deliverer--the Son redeeming His people; while in Leviticus we have the Spirit prescribing, and ordering, and empowering them for Divine worship.

THE FIRST OCCURRENCE
of the number is in Genesis 1:13. "The third day" was the day on which the earth was caused to rise up out of the water, symbolical of that resurrection life which we have in Christ, and in which alone we can worship, or serve, or do any "good works."
Hence three is a number of RESURRECTION, for it was on the third day that Jesus rose again from the dead. This was Divine in operation, and Divine in its prophetic foreshowing in the person of Jonah (Matt 12:39,40; Luke 11:29; Jonah 1:17). It was the third day on which Jesus was "perfected" (Luke 13:32). It was at the third hour He was crucified; and it was for threehours (from the 6th to the 9th) that darkness shrouded the Divine Sufferer and Redeemer. The "loud voice" at the end of those twice three hours, when, "about the ninth hour," He cried, "My God, My God, why hast Thou forsaken Me" (Matt 27:46), shows completely that nothing of nature, nothing of the light or intelligence of this world, could give help in that hour of darkness. Does not this show us our impotence in the matter? Does it not prove our incapacity to aid in delivering ourselves from our natural condition?
With the light at the ninth hour came the Divine declaration, "It is finished." So divinely finished, completed, and perfected, that now there is no such darkness for those who have died with Christ. Light, uninterrupted light, shines upon all who are risen with Him; uninterrupted sunshine--even "the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ." That three hours' darkness, therefore, testifies to our complete ruin, and our complete salvation, and shows that His people are "complete in Him."
While we are speaking of the Divine perfections of Christ, let us note the many marks and seals of this completeness.
"The Spirit, the water, and the blood," are the divinely perfect witness to the grace of God on earth (1 John 5:7).
The three years of His seeking fruit testifies to the completeness of Israel's failure (Luke 13:7).
His three-fold "it is written" shows that the Word of God is the perfection of all ministry (Matt 4).
The Divine testimony concerning Him was complete in the threefold voice from Heaven (Matt 3:17, 17:5; John 12:28).
He raised three persons from the dead.
The inscriptions on the Cross in three languages show the completeness of His rejection by Man.
The perfection of His offices are shown in His being Prophet, Priest, and King, raised up from among His brethren (Deut 177:15, 18:3-5, and 18:15).
The Divine completeness of the Shepherd's care (John 6:39), is seen in His revelations as--
  • The "Good Shepherd" in death, John 10:14.
  • The "Great Shepherd" in resurrection, Hebrews 13:20.
  • The "Chief Shepherd" in glory, 1 Peter 4:5.

His three appearances in Hebrews 9 show that His work will not be divinely perfect and complete until He appears again.
  1. He "hath appeared" in the end of the age to "put away sin," and to "bear the sins of many" (Hebrews 9:26,28).
  2. "Now to appear in the presence of God for us," He has ascended into Heaven (v 24).
  3. He "shall appear" again part from all question of sin for those who look for Him (v 28).
ABRAHAM'S COVENANT
To go back to the Old Testament history we have God's Covenant with Abraham stamped with this number of Divine perfection (Gen 15). It was (like David's, 2 Samuel 7) Divinely "ordered in all things, and sure." God was ONE, i.e., the one party to it; for Abraham, who would willingly have been the other party, was put to sleep, that the Covenant might be unconditional, and "sure to all his seed." The Divine seal is seen in the choice of three animals, each of three years old (the heifer, the she-goat, and the ram). These, together with the two birds (the dove and the pigeon), made five in all, marking it all as a perfect act of free-grace on the part of a sovereign God.

THREE THINGS PREDICATED OF GOD
(in John's Gospel and Epistles)
  • "God is love" (1 John 4:8,16). We are therefore to "Walk in love" (Eph 5:2).
  • "God is spirit" (John 4:24, RV, margin). We are exhorted to "Walk in the spirit" (Gal 5:16).
  • "God is light" (1 John 1:5). We are to "Walk in the light" (Eph 5:8).
"ASK OF ME"
To three people did God give this command:
  • To Solomon (1 Kings 3:5).
  • To Ahaz (Isa 7:11).
  • And to the Messiah (Psa 2:9).
MAN'S THREE GREAT ENEMIES
are "the World, the Flesh, and the Devil":
  1. The World is set over against the Father (1 John 2:15,16).
  2. The Flesh is set over against the Spirit (Gal 5:17).
  3. The Devil is set over against the son (the Living Word, Matthew 4:1, etc, and 1 John 3:8; and the Written Word, John 8:44).
THE THREE-FOLD CORRUPTION OF GOD'S WORD
By taking from, adding to, and altering.

THE THREE-FOLD NATURE OF TEMPTATION (1 John 2:16)
  • "The lust of the flesh."
  • "The lust of the eyes."
  • "The pride of life."
These seen in our first parents when Eve saw (Gen 3:6) that the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil was--
  • "Good for food,"
  • "Pleasant to the eyes,"
  • "To be desired to make one wise."
COMPLETENESS OF DIVINE JUDGMENT (Daniel 6:25-28).
  • MENE. God hath NUMBERED thy kingdom and finished it.
  • TEKEL. Thou art WEIGHED in the balances and found wanting.
  • PERES. Thy kingdom is DIVIDED and given to the Medes and Persians.

THE THREE GIFTS OF GRACE:
Faith, Hope, and Love, five times repeated.
THE THREE-FOLD NATURE OF MAN:
Spirit, and Soul, and Body, the man consisting of neither separately, but of the whole three together.
COMPLETENESS OF PEOPLE
  • Shem, Ham, and Japheth.
  • Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.
  • Gershom, Kohath, and Merari.
  • Saul, David, and Solomon.
  • Noah, Daniel, and Job.
  • Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego.
  • Peter, James, and John, etc.
THE GREAT FEASTS
·         were three; Unleavened Bread, Weeks, Tabernacles (Deut 16:16).
THE SHEET
·         let down three times to Peter was the fulness of the testimony as to the admission of the Gentiles into the Church (Acts 10:16).
THE OLD TESTAMENT
·         Testimony was complete and perfect in its three-fold division--Law, Prophets, and Psalms (Luke 24:44). The same three divisions mark its character to the present day.
"TWO OR THREE"
·         As three marks completeness and perfection of testimony, so it marks the number of spiritual worshippers; and intimates that true spiritual worshippers would always be few.

Excerpt by E. W. Bullinger




Thursday, 26 July 2012

Magic of cucumbers











1. Cucumbers contain most of the vitamins you need every day, just one cucumber contains Vitamin B1, vitamin B2, Vitamin B3, Vitamin B5, Vitamin B6, Folic Acid, Vitamin C, Calcium, Iron, Magnesium,  phosphorus, Potassium and Zinc.

2. Feeling tired in the afternoon, put down the caffeinated soda and pick up a cucumber. Cucumbers are a good source of B Vitamins and Carbohydrates that can provide that quick pick-me-up that can last for
hours.

3. Tired of your bathroom mirror fogging up after a shower? Try rubbing a cucumber slice along the mirror, it will eliminate the fog and provide a soothing, spa-like fragrance.

4. Are grubs and slugs ruining your planting beds? Place a few slices in a small pie tin and your garden will be free of pests all season long. The chemicals in the cucumber react with the aluminum to give
off a scent undetectable to humans but drive garden pests crazy and make them flee the area.

5. Looking for a fast and easy way to remove cellulite before going out or to the pool? Try rubbing a slice or two of cucumbers along your problem area for a few minutes, the phytochemicals in the cucumber
cause the collagen in your skin to tighten, firming up the outer layer and reducing the visibility of cellulite. Works great on wrinkles too!!!

6. Want to avoid a hangover or terrible headache? Eat a few cucumber slices before going to bed and wake up refreshed and headache free. Cucumbers contain enough sugar, B vitamins and electrolytes to replenish essential nutrients the body lost, keeping everything in equilibrium, avoiding both a hangover and headache!!

7 Looking to fight off that afternoon or evening snacking binge? Cucumbers have been used for centuries and often used by European trappers, traders and explores for quick meals to thwart off starvation.

8. Have an important meeting or job interview and you realize that you don't have enough time to polish your shoes? Rub a freshly cut cucumber over the shoe, its chemicals will provide a quick and durable shine that not only looks great but also repels water.

9. Out of WD 40 and need to fix a squeaky hinge? Take a cucumber slice and rub it along the problematic hinge, and voila, the squeak is gone!

10. Stressed out and don't have time for massage, facial or visit to the spa? Cut up an entire cucumber and place it in a boiling pot of water, the chemicals and nutrients from the cucumber will react with the boiling water and be released in the steam, creating a soothing, relaxing aroma that has been shown to reduce stress in new mothers and college students during final exams.

11. Just finish a business lunch and realize you don't have gum ormints? Take a slice of cucumber and press it to the roof of your mouth with your tongue for 30 seconds to eliminate bad breath, the
phytochemcials will kill the bacteria in your mouth responsible for causing bad breath.

12. Looking for a'green'way to clean your faucets, sinks or stainless steel? Take a slice of cucumber and rub it on the surface you want to clean, not only will it remove years of tarnish and bring back the shine, but is won't leave streaks and won't harm you fingers or fingernails while you clean.

13. Using a pen and made a mistake? Take the outsideurce of the cucumber and slowly use it to erase the pen writing, also works great on crayons and markers that the kids have used to decorate the walls!!

(Not sure who the author is but got it from a friend)


Monday, 23 July 2012

Iron Sharpens Iron




Proverbs 27:17

As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another. 

We all learn from one another, if I can learn from an experience someone else has gone through, then I would rather not that than have to go through it myself. The late Steve Covey shared with the world a few things he had learnt in his life that would be worth taking a look at.



In honour of renowned author Stephen Covey, who died a week or so ago at age 79, I would like to share some of the truths that he wrote in his book "7 Habits of Highly Effective People". 

1) Be Proactive
As human beings, we are responsible for our own lives. We have the independent will to make our own choices and decisions, and the responsibility ("the ability to respond") to make the right choices. You have the freedom to choose your own fate and path, so having the independent will, imagination and self-awareness to make the right move makes you a proactive and not a reactive, person.
2) Begin with the End In Mind
Mental visualization is extremely important. Covey says that all things are created twice: first, the mental conceptualization and visualization and a second physical, actual creation. Becoming your own creator means to plan and visualize what you're going to do and what you're setting out to accomplish and then go out and creating it. Identifying your personal statement and your principles will help.
3) Put First Things First
With your power of independent will, you can create the ending you want to have. Part of that comes with effective time management, starting with matters of importance. Then tasks should be completed based on urgency after you deal with all the important matters. If you deal with crises, pressing problems and deadline-driven projects first, your life will be a lot easier.
4) Think Win/Win
If you believe in a better way to accomplish goals that's mutually beneficial to all sides, that's a win/win situation. "All parties feel good about the decision and feel committed to the action plan," Covey wrote. "One person's success is not achieved at the expense or exclusion of the success of others." If you have integrity and maturity, there's no reason win/win situations can't happen all the time.
5) Seek First To Understand, Then To Be Understood
If you're a good listener and you take the time to understand a concept, it will help you convey your opinions, plans and goals to others. It starts with communication and strong listening skills, followed by diagnosing the situation and then communicating your solution to others.
6) Synergize
Synergistic communication, according to Covey, is "opening your mind and heart to new possibilities, new alternatives, and new options." This applies to the classroom, the business world and wherever you could apply openness and communication. It's all about building cooperation and trust.
7) Sharpen the Saw
Sometimes you're working so hard on the other six habits that you forget about re-energizing and renewing yourself to sharpen yourself for the tasks in front of you. Some sharpening techniques include exercise and nutrition, reading, planning and writing, service and empathy and commitment, study and meditation.