Wednesday, 29 August 2012

A PRAYER EVERY WIFE SHOULD PRAY



Lord
, help me to be a good wife. I fully realize that I do not what it takes to be one without Your help. Take my selfishness, impatience irritability and turn them into kindness, long-suffering and the willingness to bear all things. Take my old emotional habits, mindsets, automatic reactions, rude assumptions and self-protective stance and make me patient, kind good faithful, gentle and self-controlled. Take the hardness of my heart and break down the wall with the battering ram of revelation. Give me a new heart and work in me Your love, Your peace and joy (Galatians 5:22, 23)
Show me where there is sin in my heart especially in regard to my husband. I confess the times I have been unloving, critical, angry, resentful, disrespectful, or unforgiving towards him. Help me to put aside any hurt anger or disappointment I feel and forgive him the way You do-totally and completely, no looking back. Make me a tool of reconciliation, peace and healing in this marriage. Enable us to communicate well and rescue us from the threshold of separation where the realities of divorce begin.
Make me my husband’s helpmate, friend, champion, support, companion. Help me create a peaceful, restful, safe place to come home to. Teach me how to take care of myself and stay attractive to him. Grow me into a creative and confident woman who is rich in mind, soul and spirit. Make me the kind of woman he can be proud to say is his wife.
I lay all my expectations at Your cross. I release my husband from the burden of fulfilling me in areas where I should be looking to You. Help me to accept him the way he is and not try to change him. I realize that in some ways he may never change, but at the same time, I release him to change in ways I never thought he could. I leave any changing that needs to be done in Your hands, fully accepting that neither of us is perfect and never will be. Only You Lord are perfect and I look to You to perfect us.
Teach me how to pray for my husband and make my prayers a true language of love. Where love has died, create new love between us. Show me what unconditional love really is and how to communicate it in a way he can clearly perceive.  Bring unity between us so that we can be in agreement about everything. (Amos 3:3) May the God of patience and comfort grant us to be like-minded toward one another, according to Christ Jesus. (Romans 15:5). Make us a team not pursuing separate, competitive or independent lives, but working together, overlooking each other’s faults and weaknesses for the greater good of the marriage. Help us to pursue the things which make for peace and things by which one may edify another. (Romans 14:19)May we be “perfectly joined together in the same mind and I the same judgment” (1Corinthians 1:10)
I pray that our commitment to You and to one another will grow stronger and more passionate every day. Enable him to be the head of the home as You made him to be and show me how to support and respect him as he rises to that place of leadership. Help me understand his dreams and see things from his perspective. Reveal to me what he wants and needs and show me potential problems before they arise. Breathe your life into this marriage.
Make me a new person, Lord. Give me a fresh perspective, a positive outlook and a renewed relationship with the man You’ve given me. Help me see him in new eyes, new appreciation, new love, new compassion and new acceptance. Give my husband a new wife and let it be me.

From Stormie Omartian's "The power of a PRAYING WIFE"

Monday, 27 August 2012

Understanding People


The Leadership Principle of

Understanding People

"For the Lord grants wisdom! His every word is a treasure of knowledge and understanding." 
Proverbs 2:6
Why should I want to understand people? That's a good question. There are many reasons, but let us look at a few of the important ones:
1. It will save us from a lot of conflicts.
2. We will be able to lead and motivate people.
3. It will give us a forgiving heart.

The wise man, Solomon, talked much about certain types of people - the fools, mockers, rebels, the lazy, and others. He was wise because he understood them and knew how to deal with them. He experienced great fame and success by understanding them, and they called it "wisdom." If we don't understand mockers and rebels, we will have a lot of unnecessary conflicts with them and then develop a bad attitude toward them - which will in turn hurt us more than it will them. As people in business, we need to understand our employees in order to motivate them, or we will have poor production which will put us out of business. We also need to understand our customers - what they want, and why they want it. Without understanding them and their needs, we may be serving them well but not satisfying them. Sometimes all they want is to be appreciated or recognized. Every one of us has at least four basic needs:

1. To be loved and appreciated.
2. To experience a sense of achievement or self-worth.
3. To have a sense of belonging.
4. To feel secure.

We should keep these in mind whenever we deal with people, regardless of the situation. Business management consists of motivating people to service others. It is pretty hard to manage and motivate our people if we don't understand their personal needs. We need to understand their strengths and their weaknesses, and place them accordingly. A good team is made of a variety of people with a variety of gifts. The weakness in one should be covered by the strength of another. Out of the Lord's mouth comes knowledge and understanding, and if we sincerely seek Him to gain wisdom, He will give it. God says, "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom". When we understand why people do what they do and why they are what they are, we will know how to direct them to get the proper response.

A good understanding will also give us a forgiving attitude. Jesus understood His accusers. That's why He could say, "Father forgive them, for they know not what they do." What an attitude! Forgiveness came easily because He understood their ignorance or why they did what they did. We too can forgive easily if we understand ourselves and our situation. Generally, people want to be nice and good, but situations and pressures of life push them past their hope or dreams. Many times, they feel bad immediately after they have reacted. This gives us an opportunity to speak a word of wisdom to them. The time to build people is when they are down; they won't listen to us when they are up. We need to commit ourselves to the task of understanding people. God will bless and reward us with a forgiving heart, and will give us peace and happiness in a world that is full of frustration and conflict.

This principle is a part of the one-year character development program
Foundations for Achievement
By John E. Schrock and La Red Business Network

Wednesday, 1 August 2012

Spiritual significance of the Number THREE


Came across this interesting piece and thought I would share. REMEMBER. TEST EVERY SPIRIT. Look into these things and find the truth in them for yourself. A bit long but worth the read.

Three is the number associated with the Godhead, for there are "three persons in one God." Three times the Seraphim cry, "Holy, Holy, Holy"--one for each of the three persons in the Trinity (Isa 6:3). The living creatures also in Revelation 4:8.
Three times is the blessing given in Numbers 6:23, 24:--
  • "The LORD bless thee and keep thee (the Father);
  • The LORD make His face shine upon thee; and be gracious unto thee (the Son);
  • The LORD lift up His countenance upon thee, and give thee peace" (the Holy Spirit).

Each of these three blessings is two-fold, so that there are two members in each, while the name Jehovah occurs three times. This marks the blessing as Divine in its source. No merit drew it forth; grace was its origin and peace was its result.
In Genesis 18:2, the same three persons appear to Abraham. Abraham "looked, and, lo, THREE men stood by him." But verse 1 declares that it was "Jehovah appeared unto him." It is remarkable that Abraham addresses them both as one and as three. We read first that "they said," then "he said," and finally, in verses 13 and 17, 20, etc., "And the LORD said." The whole narrative, which begins with the appearance of the LORD, ends (v 33), "And the LORD went His way."
As we have in the number one the sovereignty of the one God; and in two the second person, the Son, the great Deliverer; so in "three" we have the third person, the Holy Spirit, marking and completing "the fulness of the Godhead." This word "fulness" is remarkable, occurring only three times, and in connection with the Three Persons of the Trinity:
  • Ephesians 3:19, "The fulness of God.
  • Ephesians 4:13, "The fulness of Christ."
  • Colossians 2:9, "The fulness of the Godhead."
The "fulness" was manifested visibly in Christ, and is communicated by the Holy Spirit, for it is a fulness of which we receive by His mighty power (John 1:16).
This is why Abraham brought "three measures of meal" for his heavenly guest. This is why "three measures of meal" formed the great meal offering; because it set forth the perfection of Christ's perfect and Divine nature. In Leviticus no particular quantity of meal was prescribed, but in Numbers 15:9, we read, "Then shall he bring with the bullock a meal offering of THREE tenth deals of flour." This was the measure for the whole burnt offering, and also for great special occasions such as the New Moon and the New Year, etc. It was also the special measure for the cleansing of the leper (Lev 14:10). The poor leper had several gracious blessings beyond others. He alone was favoured with the anointing which was given only to the Prophet, Priest, and King! He alone had the priestly consecration. It is sinners who are now singled out from the mass of those who are lost, and dead in trespasses and sins, to be anointed with the Spirit, and made, in Christ, kings and priests unto God.
But there is more in these "three measures of meal." We have them in the parable (Matt 13:33), pointing to Christ in all the perfection of His person and His work, when He said, "Lo, I come to do Thy will, O God." There are different opinions about the "leaven," but what is the "meal." This is the point on which the interpretation turns. According to the popular interpretation, this pure "meal" is the corrupt mass of mankind, and the defiling "leaven" is the pure Gospel of Christ! Was there ever such an exhibition of man's perversity in calling sweet bitter, and bitter sweet? Was there ever such a proof that man's thoughts are contrary to God's? No! the "three measures of meal" point us to the perfections of Christ and the purity of His Gospel. And the hidden "leaven" points us to man's corruption of the Truth. A corruption for which we have to look, not after the third century, but in the first!
No leaven could be put into any sacrifice or offering made by fire to the LORD, because in Christ was no sin; therefore, there was to be no leaven. He was, in Himself, "a sweet savour to Jehovah."
True, in one offering there was leaven. But mark the difference and the lesson. In Leviticus 23 we have a list of the Feasts:--
  • 1st. The Passover (v 5), on the 14th day.
  • 2nd. The wave-sheaf of first-fruits on the morrow after the Sabbath (v 11), which might be burnt on the altar as a sweet savour (Lev 2:14-16), because unleavened.
  • 3rd. Then (50 days after) the oblation of the first-fruits at Pentecost (vv 15-17). This might not be burnt on the altar (Lev 2:12), because it was mixed with leaven!
In the antitype of this we see Christ:--
  • 1st. Christ our Passover sacrificed for us.
  • 2nd. As the wave-sheaf of first-fruits, He was raised from the dead and became the first-fruits of them that slept (1 Cor 15:20), for in Him there was no sin (and hence no leaven).
  • 3rd. Then, after fifty days, on the Feast of Pentecost came the oblation of the first-fruits in the descent of the Holy Ghost; for "we are a kind of first-fruits of His creatures" (James 1:18). But His people are not without sin, therefore this oblation had leaven mixed with it. It could not be offered to the LORD as a "sweet savour" (Lev 2:12). It was accepted only because asin-offering was offered with it (Lev 23:18,19), and the Priest waved all together for a wave-offering before the LORD.
This proves that the "leaven" is a type of error, evil, and sin. While the "three measures of meal" with which it was mixed and hidden typified the truth and purity of Christ and His Truth, and not the corrupt mass of mankind amongst whom it was introduced. The popular interpretation reverses the types of the meal and the leaven, and makes the leaven that which is good, and the meal that which is evil. But the great Teacher made no such mistake. "Church doctrine" is not "Bible truth," but it is leavened meal.
The number three, therefore, must be taken as the number of Divine fulness. It signifies and represents the Holy Spirit as taking of the things of Christ and making them real and solid in our experience. It is only by the Spirit that we realise spiritual things. Without Him and His gracious operation, all is surface work: all is what a plane figure is to a solid (John 3:6). He it is who has wrought all our works in us, and by whom alone we can serve or worship (John 4:24).
Hence it is that the Holy of Holies, which was the central and highest place of worship, was a cube.
Hence it is that the third Book in the Bible is Leviticus, the book in which we learn what true worship is. Here we see Jehovah calling His people near unto Himself, prescribing every detail of their worship, leaving nothing to their imagination or their taste, crowning all with the "MUST" of the great rubric of John 4:24. In true worship we see the FATHER seeking these true worshippers (John 4:23); the SON, the one object of all worship; and the Spirit qualifying and enduring the worshippers with the only power in which they can worship. Thus in Genesis we havesovereignty in giving life--the Father, the beginning of all things; in Exodus we have the oppressor and the Deliverer--the Son redeeming His people; while in Leviticus we have the Spirit prescribing, and ordering, and empowering them for Divine worship.

THE FIRST OCCURRENCE
of the number is in Genesis 1:13. "The third day" was the day on which the earth was caused to rise up out of the water, symbolical of that resurrection life which we have in Christ, and in which alone we can worship, or serve, or do any "good works."
Hence three is a number of RESURRECTION, for it was on the third day that Jesus rose again from the dead. This was Divine in operation, and Divine in its prophetic foreshowing in the person of Jonah (Matt 12:39,40; Luke 11:29; Jonah 1:17). It was the third day on which Jesus was "perfected" (Luke 13:32). It was at the third hour He was crucified; and it was for threehours (from the 6th to the 9th) that darkness shrouded the Divine Sufferer and Redeemer. The "loud voice" at the end of those twice three hours, when, "about the ninth hour," He cried, "My God, My God, why hast Thou forsaken Me" (Matt 27:46), shows completely that nothing of nature, nothing of the light or intelligence of this world, could give help in that hour of darkness. Does not this show us our impotence in the matter? Does it not prove our incapacity to aid in delivering ourselves from our natural condition?
With the light at the ninth hour came the Divine declaration, "It is finished." So divinely finished, completed, and perfected, that now there is no such darkness for those who have died with Christ. Light, uninterrupted light, shines upon all who are risen with Him; uninterrupted sunshine--even "the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ." That three hours' darkness, therefore, testifies to our complete ruin, and our complete salvation, and shows that His people are "complete in Him."
While we are speaking of the Divine perfections of Christ, let us note the many marks and seals of this completeness.
"The Spirit, the water, and the blood," are the divinely perfect witness to the grace of God on earth (1 John 5:7).
The three years of His seeking fruit testifies to the completeness of Israel's failure (Luke 13:7).
His three-fold "it is written" shows that the Word of God is the perfection of all ministry (Matt 4).
The Divine testimony concerning Him was complete in the threefold voice from Heaven (Matt 3:17, 17:5; John 12:28).
He raised three persons from the dead.
The inscriptions on the Cross in three languages show the completeness of His rejection by Man.
The perfection of His offices are shown in His being Prophet, Priest, and King, raised up from among His brethren (Deut 177:15, 18:3-5, and 18:15).
The Divine completeness of the Shepherd's care (John 6:39), is seen in His revelations as--
  • The "Good Shepherd" in death, John 10:14.
  • The "Great Shepherd" in resurrection, Hebrews 13:20.
  • The "Chief Shepherd" in glory, 1 Peter 4:5.

His three appearances in Hebrews 9 show that His work will not be divinely perfect and complete until He appears again.
  1. He "hath appeared" in the end of the age to "put away sin," and to "bear the sins of many" (Hebrews 9:26,28).
  2. "Now to appear in the presence of God for us," He has ascended into Heaven (v 24).
  3. He "shall appear" again part from all question of sin for those who look for Him (v 28).
ABRAHAM'S COVENANT
To go back to the Old Testament history we have God's Covenant with Abraham stamped with this number of Divine perfection (Gen 15). It was (like David's, 2 Samuel 7) Divinely "ordered in all things, and sure." God was ONE, i.e., the one party to it; for Abraham, who would willingly have been the other party, was put to sleep, that the Covenant might be unconditional, and "sure to all his seed." The Divine seal is seen in the choice of three animals, each of three years old (the heifer, the she-goat, and the ram). These, together with the two birds (the dove and the pigeon), made five in all, marking it all as a perfect act of free-grace on the part of a sovereign God.

THREE THINGS PREDICATED OF GOD
(in John's Gospel and Epistles)
  • "God is love" (1 John 4:8,16). We are therefore to "Walk in love" (Eph 5:2).
  • "God is spirit" (John 4:24, RV, margin). We are exhorted to "Walk in the spirit" (Gal 5:16).
  • "God is light" (1 John 1:5). We are to "Walk in the light" (Eph 5:8).
"ASK OF ME"
To three people did God give this command:
  • To Solomon (1 Kings 3:5).
  • To Ahaz (Isa 7:11).
  • And to the Messiah (Psa 2:9).
MAN'S THREE GREAT ENEMIES
are "the World, the Flesh, and the Devil":
  1. The World is set over against the Father (1 John 2:15,16).
  2. The Flesh is set over against the Spirit (Gal 5:17).
  3. The Devil is set over against the son (the Living Word, Matthew 4:1, etc, and 1 John 3:8; and the Written Word, John 8:44).
THE THREE-FOLD CORRUPTION OF GOD'S WORD
By taking from, adding to, and altering.

THE THREE-FOLD NATURE OF TEMPTATION (1 John 2:16)
  • "The lust of the flesh."
  • "The lust of the eyes."
  • "The pride of life."
These seen in our first parents when Eve saw (Gen 3:6) that the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil was--
  • "Good for food,"
  • "Pleasant to the eyes,"
  • "To be desired to make one wise."
COMPLETENESS OF DIVINE JUDGMENT (Daniel 6:25-28).
  • MENE. God hath NUMBERED thy kingdom and finished it.
  • TEKEL. Thou art WEIGHED in the balances and found wanting.
  • PERES. Thy kingdom is DIVIDED and given to the Medes and Persians.

THE THREE GIFTS OF GRACE:
Faith, Hope, and Love, five times repeated.
THE THREE-FOLD NATURE OF MAN:
Spirit, and Soul, and Body, the man consisting of neither separately, but of the whole three together.
COMPLETENESS OF PEOPLE
  • Shem, Ham, and Japheth.
  • Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.
  • Gershom, Kohath, and Merari.
  • Saul, David, and Solomon.
  • Noah, Daniel, and Job.
  • Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego.
  • Peter, James, and John, etc.
THE GREAT FEASTS
·         were three; Unleavened Bread, Weeks, Tabernacles (Deut 16:16).
THE SHEET
·         let down three times to Peter was the fulness of the testimony as to the admission of the Gentiles into the Church (Acts 10:16).
THE OLD TESTAMENT
·         Testimony was complete and perfect in its three-fold division--Law, Prophets, and Psalms (Luke 24:44). The same three divisions mark its character to the present day.
"TWO OR THREE"
·         As three marks completeness and perfection of testimony, so it marks the number of spiritual worshippers; and intimates that true spiritual worshippers would always be few.

Excerpt by E. W. Bullinger